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Meanwhile, your husband may not know about your affair or he may know more than you imagine, prompting his job search across the countrybut as much as you feel his distance from you, surely he senses your distance from him. Was your therapist truly suggesting that you deceive your husband with a covert affair, or rather that dovorced talk with him about the possibility of opening up the marriage and see if the two of you might find a different way forward?

How does one handle heartbreak that is a secret? Life is busy and complicated but intimacy and sexual satisfaction don't need to be. Instead, you unilaterally decided to direct all of your sexual and emotional energy outside the marriage, making it even harder for your husband to connect with you on any level.

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This could be a one time arrangement or an ongoing enjoyment. Maybe a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow So I feel like I'm looking for fouples lochness monster or something. Coiples matter what you come to decide, remember that a marriage, like a broken heart, is healed from the inside, not the outside. Sexual issues can stem from so many causes: health problems, stress, poor communication, medication side effects, a history of abuse, trauma, negative body image—and all of these are tangled up with feelings a person has around being wanted and loved, and feeling connected to someone else.

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Anonymous Newton, Massachusetts Dear Anonymous, What strikes me most in your letter is the contradiction between the joy you say your lover brings you and your description of how he treats you. Children who lack this reflection experience heartbreak and grieve alone, because the adults they would normally share their inner worlds with are the very people they feel hurt by.

Do they delight in our presence? Looking for the impossible If so, an image of ourselves as worthy and lovable is reflected back to us, and we begin to integrate it into a positive self-image.

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Dear Therapist is for informational purposes only, does not constitute medical advice, and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If we click we can see each other as often as we like, maybe sometimes a few times a week, and other weeks once or not at all just depending on our schedules. Asit takes form in the mirror our parents hold up to us. Look for a decent guy.

And all of this angst and sadness is being experienced in secret. Do they respond to our wants and needs?

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Not a liar or a cheater. Meanwhile, in your marriage, as in many marriages that lack physical intimacy, what you see reflected back to you is likely the opposite: You feel invisible, undesired, and unheard when it comes to your wants and needs.

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I feel so out of control. You take away the secrecy. I am husky, decent looking, educated and respectful and am told I am a satisfying lover, please if interested. Perhaps without realizing it, you sought out what felt familiar to you from your childhood—the pain of feeling helpless and alone.

coyples Do we matter to them? As you think back to how these interactions went, do you feel that you were a true partner in working through this issue together, or did you feel so personally injured, so much like the helpless victim in this story, that you framed this as something that your husband needed to work out alone?

Can someone please prove to me that there are still good guys out there Do they see our beauty? As adults, many of them end up in marriages that resemble their childhood.

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Early on, when the sexual problems became apparent, how did you and your husband talk about them? Always seek the advice of your physician, mental-health professional, or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. I am envisioning my new life, relatively joyless, sexless, lonely, and isolated.

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Part of me wonders if I am even entitled to any of this grief, that maybe I deserve this for being an adulterer.